February 14, 2013

Bila Isteri Tidak Berkerja

Artikel ini tidak termasuk mereka yg mengambil pembantu rumah, org gaji, atau goyang kaki di rumah. Golongan ini tidak merasa penat dan jerihnyer melakukan kerja² rumah. Coretan dibawah hanya utk isteri yg melakukan sendiri kerja² rumah. Sama ada berkerja mahupun tidak berkerja.

Lihatlah bagaimana tgjwb mereka kalau kita masih merasakan 'isteri saya tidak berkerja'. Apatah lagi isteri yg sediakala berkerja dipejabat atau mana² shj membantu suami mencari rezeki. Kemudian pulang kerumah terpaksa pula memasak dan melakukan kerja² rumah selain menguruskan anak². Hargailah setiap perngorbanan pasangan anda............! Jangan byk complaint OK? Ingat tu para suami dan lelaki sekalian.


A husband complains for feeling tired... tired and tired.... and wants his wife help him on earning money by also working, because so far he thinks that his wife is 'not working'.

Following are Question and Answer between The Husband (H) and The Psychologist (P):

P : What do you for a living Mr. Bandy?
H : I work as an Accountant in a Bank.

P : Your Wife ?
H : She doesn't work. She's a Housewife only.

P : Who make breakfast for your family in the morning?
H : My Wife, because she doesn't work.

P : At what time your wife wake up for making breakfast?
H : She wakes up at around 5am because she cleans the house first before making breakfast.

P : How do your kids go to school?
H : My wife take them to school, because she doesn't work.

P : After taking kids to school, what does she do?
H : She goes to the market, then go back home for cooking and laundrying clothes. You know, she doesn't work.

P : In the evening, after you go back home from office, what do you do?
H : Take rest, because i'm tired due to all day works.

P : What does your wife do then?
H : She prepares meals, serving our kids, preparing meals for me and cleaning the dishes, cleaning the house then taking kids to bed.

From the story above, who do you think work more???

The daily rounities of your wives commence from early morning to late at night. That is called 'DOESN'T WORK'??!!

Yes, Being Housewives do not need Certificate of Study, even High Position, but their ROLE/PART is very important!

Appreciate your wives. Because their sacrifices are uncountable. This should be a reminder and reflection for all us to understand and appreciate each others roles. Understanding and Appreciating each other will make each person feel Happy.

Remember also that our Prophet (SallAllaahu 'Alayhi Wa Sallam) used to help his wives on house working:

It is narrated on the authority of Abu Hurayrah (radiyAllaahu 'anhu) that he said: I asked 'Aa`ishah (radiyAllaahu 'anha) what the Messenger of Allah (SallAllaahu 'Alayhi Wa Sallam) used to do in the house. She said: ► "He used to help with the housework and when it was time to pray he would leave for the prayer " [Al-Bukhari: 676]

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